{"id":97428,"date":"2015-07-23T08:00:48","date_gmt":"2015-07-23T13:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/?p=97428"},"modified":"2015-07-24T16:03:18","modified_gmt":"2015-07-24T21:03:18","slug":"how-to-suck-at-volunteering","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/?p=97428","title":{"rendered":"How to Suck at Volunteering : a personal story of how I did it and how I fixed it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>by <a href=\"https:\/\/inalj.com\/?page_id=3853\" target=\"_blank\">Naomi House, MLIS<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>How To Suck At Volunteering<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/inalj.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Naomi-House-at-NPR2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-97434\" src=\"https:\/\/inalj.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Naomi-House-at-NPR2.png\" alt=\"Naomi House at NPR\" width=\"233\" height=\"179\" \/><\/a>Surprise!\u00a0\u00a0This is\u00a0not really and truly a list of how to suck at volunteering!\u00a0 I could have just as easily called it How to be Great at Volunteering.\u00a0 So why the negative slant in the title?\u00a0 Because I have been a bad volunteer and I learned more from my mistakes.\u00a0The bad always sticks with me longer and between the two titles I know I&#8217;d\u00a0only\u00a0read this one.<\/p>\n<p>You know this cannot possibly just be a list of pet peeves and complaints screamed into the vast paper bag that is the internet; nope, because this is INALJ (positivity #ftw)\u00a0I will actually be focusing instead on <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">how to be a<em><strong> great<\/strong> <\/em>volunteer<\/span>!\u00a0 But frankly listing how to be a bad volunteer can\u00a0easily be flipped into how to be a good volunteer; just DO the opposite, right?<\/p>\n<p>Though I plan on making this more of a what to do list lets get the negative out of the way first, shall we, with some tried and true tales of how I have messed up past volunteer jobs.\u00a0 Notice I use the term &#8220;jobs&#8221; because volunteering is work.\u00a0 It is labor and it is uncompensated labor you are doing for someone else.\u00a0 The work done at some of my volunteer jobs was more intense, and more important than several of my paid jobs for certain.\u00a0 So how did I mess up?<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>DON&#8217;T<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Miss ALL the deadlines:\u00a0<\/strong> Being timely is important, sometimes critical.\u00a0 Though life can get in the way even if you DO miss your deadlines be sure you are communicative with whomever is supervising your work.\u00a0 How did I screw this one up?\u00a0 A few years ago an esteemed librarian gave me an opportunity to work on a book series\u00a0that would eventually have been for profit!\u00a0 Wow!\u00a0 We met, drew up deadlines, discussed workflow &#8230; printed business cards and then began to write.\u00a0 This was part of what I had volunteered to do but I was stumped. I put it off and worst of all I was not honest with my now business partner about my struggle.\u00a0 I got lucky in that the librarian ended up recognizing that I was failing in my promises and ended the project early, but I clearly owed them an apology and had to recognize that the failure was not only mine alone BUT it had been <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">a waste of everyone&#8217;s time<\/span> and that was very unfair to my team and the person who put their trust in my work ethic.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Not Communicate:\u00a0<\/strong> Yup, a double negative.\u00a0I can live with that.\u00a0 Life happens.\u00a0 Health, family, your compensated employment schedule; all kinds of things can get in the way of completing your tasks \/ work.\u00a0 But it is vital that you communicate ASAP with whomever is supervising so they can figure out coverage or realign.\u00a0 In addition to communicating with supervisors if you are on a team you need to be flexible and good at listening to your teammates concerns.\u00a0 So how did I screw that one up?\u00a0 Years ago I volunteered with a GREAT group of teachers teaching language skills.\u00a0 The first semester our group gelled and I learned from the various teachers and gained confidence and a new set of skills.\u00a0 The second semester half of our group changed and I was paired up with an energetic new teacher who if I wanted to try one thing they were dead set against it, and anything they suggested I balked at.\u00a0 We were at odds on Everything and I felt quite the victim of this bulldozing, disagreeable partner.\u00a0 Of course I was incredibly self-centered, inflexible, and non-negotiating.\u00a0 Once the disagreement started I never gave their point of view any serious consideration and I fought and pouted and was generally miserable to work with. I was a bad team player.\u00a0 You know where the &#8220;I&#8221; in TEAM lives so lets leave it there.\u00a0 But sadly, I did not realize this until much later and have never properly apologized.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>So the positive spin on this is : <\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>do what you say you will and\u00a0be transparent and communicative with all involved from your manager to your teammates.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So as you can see Every Single <em>Don&#8217;t<\/em>\u00a0&#8211; <em>Way to Suck<\/em> is something I am very familiar with because I have done it.\u00a0 This isn&#8217;t an article to call out anyone specifically and especially not INALJ volunteers.\u00a0I have been both a GREAT volunteer and a terrible one.\u00a0 No-one is to blame but me for my mistakes and I deserve the praise I earned too! \u00a0I really want everyone who had been through this or considered volunteering to know that I know the pratfalls and mistakes that can happen because I have done them.\u00a0 Been there, done that, learned and now I expect better of myself.\u00a0I expect better of all my volunteers too and\u00a0LIS folks have very rarely disappointed!\u00a0 I have been blessed with over 600 volunteers in 5 years,\u00a0and so very many of them truly exceeded all expectations.\u00a0INALJays (what I call us) ROCK!<\/p>\n<p>So what should we do to be sure that the volunteer work we do is a good fit for us as well as our skills are a good fit for the work?<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>DO<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Be timely:<\/strong> This is KEY!\u00a0 If the workplace needs X done by a certain time or done with regularity do not agree unless it will work with your schedule.\u00a0Deadlines are usually not\u00a0arbitrary.\u00a0 \u00a0Which leads to&#8230;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t overpromise:<\/strong>\u00a0 Whether it is the volume of work, the amount of time or your true feelings on how long you can commit, Be honest with the volunteer organization from the start.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll be happier.\u00a0 They&#8217;ll be happier and you won&#8217;t be wasting your time or theirs!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Communicate:<\/strong> Email, phone, in person &#8211; the world we live in is fantastically full of platforms and methods of communication!\u00a0 So don&#8217;t let discomfort and anxiety lead &#8211; your volunteer manager and teammates need to hear from you so that the whole project goes smoothly.\u00a0 YOU are very important to the success of anything you give your time to!\u00a0 Also if you are ever in a bad work relationship or being bullied, even at volunteer jobs, please let someone know and hopefully there will be a mechanism in place where you can feel safe and comfortable doing this.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Do the\u00a0work: <\/strong>Um yep, what you signed up to do, do it. No excuses and if you can&#8217;t then communicate why you can&#8217;t with the manager.\u00a0 Easy-peasy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Be mindful of your time commitment:<\/strong>\u00a0 Volunteering is something that means you will be sacrificing time and labor, even sometimes work.\u00a0 Blogging here is volunteer work for the site, uncompensated, for example.\u00a0 Really examine if this is something you are able and willing to give to.\u00a0 There are a ton of projects I would love to support and I give small donations of money to, but would love to be more involved but I can&#8217;t.\u00a0 Volunteering is often something people in positions of privilege have easier access to because time is so commoditized in our culture.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t put yourself in a position where you feel you have to choose between taking care of yourself and family versus volunteering: you should always come first and this is what I mean about being mindful, be mindful of yourself.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What are some does and don&#8217;ts you think we should also consider?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Naomi House, MLIS How To Suck At Volunteering Surprise!\u00a0\u00a0This is\u00a0not really and truly a list of how to suck at volunteering!\u00a0 I could have just as easily called it How to be Great at Volunteering.\u00a0 So why the negative slant in the title?\u00a0 Because I have been a bad volunteer and I learned more&hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"more-link-p\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/inalj.com\/?p=97428\">Read more \u2192<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":97509,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[145],"tags":[69,3592,6,6152,4657,4252,410],"class_list":["post-97428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles","tag-article","tag-blog","tag-naomi-house","tag-naomi-house-mlis","tag-pros-and-cons-of-volunteering","tag-volunteer","tag-volunteering"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/naomi-house-npr.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1WoMK-plq","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97428","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=97428"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97428\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/97509"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=97428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=97428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=97428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}