{"id":60454,"date":"2014-02-10T11:40:42","date_gmt":"2014-02-10T16:40:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/?p=60454"},"modified":"2014-02-11T13:57:49","modified_gmt":"2014-02-11T18:57:49","slug":"who-are-you-choosing-to-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inalj.com\/?p=60454","title":{"rendered":"Who ARE You (choosing to be)?"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Sheryl L. Christensen, Head Editor, INALJ California<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

Who ARE You (choosing to be)?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

\"Sheryl_Christensen\"<\/a>Many of you have probably seen this TedTalk<\/a> by Shawn Achor.<\/p>\n

In this video, he very entertainingly tells stories and offers information about how our happiness and positive, self-affirming outlook oftentimes precedes or even brings about what we distinguish as success.\u00a0 A lot of us tend to believe that in achieving certain goals we will trigger in ourselves a permanent state of contentment.<\/b> In fact, living a life that supports our drive, passion, and energy and taking up a venture with a positive and affirming \u2018internal outlook\u2019 already in place is what may be at the heart of our enthusiastic pursuit of that dream and also what may be generating the best social ecosystem for its ultimate realization.<\/p>\n

How does this idea about the pronounced significance of outlook tie in to the job search?<\/p>\n

It is something that, to me, comes back to that infamous question that is asked at so many job interviews: \u201cTell us a little bit about yourself.\u201d<\/b>\u00a0 Whether we realize it or not, we are always in the process of becoming ourselves.\u00a0 We are continually making choices.\u00a0 Should we read a certain book, take a certain class, eat a certain food?\u00a0 We also make what seem like unconscious choices: for example, becoming irritated in bumper-to-bumper traffic. Our choices, action-based and thought-based, lead to outcomes that propel us in a direction \u2013 and we become a selected and directed version of ourselves.\u00a0 It is never too early to make a decision to go in the direction that we would choose if we felt we had the power to do so: the direction that supports our ideal ecosystem and our happiness.<\/p>\n

Although I can almost guarantee you that the answer to the famous interview question contains a version that identifies those qualities to a prospective employer that paint a picture of the skills and abilities you bring to the table, I also believe that reinforcing our identities with conscious action as well as attention to the types of thoughts we allow ourselves to habitually think will absolutely help us to answer with more confidence and enthusiasm.\u00a0 <\/b>We will know who we are; we will be able to describe our path (our resume — and our future resume) in an exciting way to someone who has never met us.\u00a0 Our positivity, confidence, and passion will brighten the discourse — and this in itself could lead to some interesting opportunities.<\/p>\n

As I finish writing my first blog post today, I am in a reflective mood. \u00a0It is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, a day that celebrates a man who holds deep significance to me and to so many others. \u00a0If you haven\u2019t yet had the chance, I strongly recommend reading what this great man wrote<\/a>.\u00a0 He makes so much sense and is, as so many have already said, deeply inspiring.<\/p>\n

We all have dreams; additionally, we all have choices to make.\u00a0 Who and what will we allow to influence our personal, social, and professional ecosystems?\u00a0 Will we allow our happiness to be moments only, fleeting and then distantly remembered among the dull, rough routine of our days?\u00a0 Or will we nurture it to become a constant inside of us, cyclically feeding on and supporting our loves and passions?\u00a0 Every moment, every experience is very much our creation.\u00a0 And those moments lead us.<\/p>\n

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by Sheryl L. Christensen, Head Editor, INALJ California Who ARE You (choosing to be)? Many of you have probably seen this TedTalk by Shawn Achor. In this video, he very entertainingly tells stories and offers information about how our happiness and positive, self-affirming outlook oftentimes precedes or even brings about what we distinguish as success.\u00a0…<\/p>\n

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