by Amanda May, Head Editor, INALJ North Dakota

Job Searching Tips for Introverts

If you are an introvert, like me, you may not be the biggest fan of social interactions.  If I had to choose between a large group meeting and going to the dentist, I would probably choose to go to the dentist.  Nonetheless, I do understand that social interactions, like interviews and meetings, are vital to the job searching process.  Here are some ideas to make your search a little bit easier:

• Schedule breaks between meetings and interviews: Back-to-back meetings are tough for anyone, but as an introvert, it can be an exhausting experience.  That is why I think that it is really important to have time to “recharge” after a meeting.  I use the breaks to reflect on the meeting or interview.  Most of all, I have time to collect my thoughts and relax.  Even fifteen minutes can help me prepare for the next meeting or interview.
• Plan questions and conversation starters:  It sounds kind of cheesy, but I recommend taking the time to plan out ways to start a conversation.  There will be small talk in meetings or interviews, so I find it nice to have something to fall back on in a group situation.
• Go to networking events:  I’ll be honest.  I don’t like networking events.  The idea of talking to people that I have never met gives me the heebie-jeebies.  Yet, I do understand their importance.  They help people know who you are and what you can do.  While you may want to avoid a networking event or leave as soon as you get there, challenge yourself to stay a certain amount of time.  You may only stay for a half an hour, but you still would have met people.  The next time you go to a networking event, try to stay a little bit longer.
• Don’t pretend to be someone else: I made the mistake of pretending to be much more extroverted.  It was exhausting.  I spent so much time trying to put across this idea of myself; I didn’t have the energy to work on what was important to me and my job.  Don’t get me wrong, I do think it is important to push yourself outside of your comfort zone.  Just remember that there really is a limit, and that’s okay. This is who you are.  Embrace it and be awesome.